5 Tips For Gay Couples Beginning Their Surrogacy Journey

 

Building a family through surrogacy can be a unique experience, especially for gay couples. Here are some tips to help along the way.

Tip 1: Support Matters

Finding the right support when building your family is important! Working with Little Embryos is a smart choice, as we have experience with LGBTQ+ families, so can provide expert support. We can guide you through the surrogacy process and make sure you're well-supported from the very beginning until you're home with your little one.

It's also great to connect with other families who have gone through similar experiences. There are lots of groups and organisations where you can find support and share stories with other same-sex parents. Talking to people who understand what you're going through can make a big difference.

Tip 2: Understand The Laws

It's important to know the rules about surrogacy where you're thinking about going and remember those rules can change. Different places have different laws. Look for clinics and agencies like Little Embryos that are friendly to gay couples - they often work together and can point you in the right direction.

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Tip 3: Genetic Roles

For gay couples, deciding who will be the biological father can be a unique part of the surrogacy journey. One option for some couples consider is to fertilise multiple eggs and use sperm from both partners. This gives both partners the chance to be a biological parent, though usually not at the same time, as most places don't allow combining an egg donor with sperm from two different fathers in a single transfer.

Tip 4: Figuring Out The Name Game

Families come in all shapes and sizes, and so do the names we use! While some families use traditional names, others choose names that feel right for them. For same-sex dads, there are lots of options, like Papa, Poppa, Baba, Papi, Babbo, or even just using their first names or nicknames. It's all about finding what works best for your family.

Tip 5: Take the time to understand Pregnancy

It's common for dads to learn about pregnancy a little differently than mums. Since mum’s experience pregnancy firsthand, they often think about it and research it more as they get older. That's why it's a great idea for dads to do some extra learning so they can better understand what their surrogate is going through.

The First Step to Parenthood Starts Here 

We understand that starting a family is one of life's biggest decisions, and we are here to make the process as smooth and comforting as possible. With Little Embryos, you are never alone on this journey. Our award-winning team is committed to turning your dreams of parenthood into reality.

Take the First Step Today

Reach out to Little Embryos, where we’ll be by your side every step of the way - offering both cutting-edge medical expertise and the compassionate care you deserve. Together, we’ll help make your dream of becoming parents a reality.